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The worship style St. John is known for with biblically-sound real life messages, band and vocal music that enhance worship and the message while maintaining a focus on the sacred and encouraging you on your LIFEjourney with Christ.

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*Children's Ministry options are available for children from birth through fifth grade at the times marked.  Children are always welcome to worship with their families. A Parents' Room is also available if you need to step out for a moment.



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Day 3 - Seminars and Saving Lives

We had an incredible day today. Kirby Nichols, Tony Buop and I spent the day presenting staff development topics to a group of 30+ attendees from a variety of NGOs in Cambodia. We had attendees from Evangelical Lutheran Church of Cambodia (ELCC), Lutheran Hour Ministries, Concordia Welfare and Education Foundation (CWEF), Child Rescue, Stronghold Cambodia, Pastor Seang Chern from Ream Church and Pastor Bun Hearn and his wife, Chan Somphosh, from Kompong Sam Church and students from the Kampong Som Bible School (KBS), who graciously provided the venue for our seminar. The morning topics consisted of lessons in "Personality Styles" and "How to Manage Difficult Conversations," presented by me.  I must say, this is the first time that I have given a presentation in bare feet, and looked up to find a cow meandering by the large opening at the rear of the venue.

After a delicious lunch of squid in Koh Kong Fish sauce and pork and vegetable over steamed rice, we returned to the seminar to cover "Hiring Best Practices" and "Performance Management," both presented by Kirby.  Pastor John Saray was our excellent translator for the entire day. Amanda Rossini was the trooper of the day. At the last minute, she was called on to teach English (without the aid of a translator), to the six classes at Stronghold Cambodia; three in the morning and three in the afternoon. All of the English speaking staff of SC would be with the rest of us at KBS attending the seminar. Two other teachers and the SC cook; all of whom only speak Khmer would be the only staff left with Amanda at SC. The morning classes were able to enjoy a face-time session with Amanda's son Caleb. They exchanged conversation about their ages, families, and favorite pastimes. Because there is a 12 hour time difference between St. Louis and Cambodia, Caleb was sleeping by the time of the afternoon classes.

As if this weren't enough heroism on Amanda's part, after dinner we had time to take advantage of the hotel pool for the first time since arriving. It was a well needed break for all of us. While we were swimming, a young man jumped into the deep end of the pool. His mother began yelling, and three of us assumed she was chiding her son for breaking the pool rules. But Amanda correctly assessed the situation, hearing the fear in the mother's voice and realized that the boy could not swim. Her prior life guard experience kicked in and she immediately jumped into action.  She lifted the boy across the pool and into his mother's waiting arms. After a little sputtering, it was clear that he was okay, and the mom expressed her heart-felt thanks. We thank God for Amanda and her quick thinking and instant action. Talk about being "The light of the world," which coincidentally as the topic Amanda had chosen for the devotion she was leading at the time of the incident. We all believe that we are here to save lives, but today, Amanda knocked the ball right out of the park. God bless you Amanda!!

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What You See Is What You Get

Several of our newer staff people are from different cultures; different church traditions and different regions of the United States. Chris is from Tennessee. You can tell by his accent.

Chris is not a member of the worship staff so he only attends worship meeting when he is involved in an upcoming service or participated in the last service. I will never forget the “deer in the headlights,” look he had after his first meeting. As per usual, if an attendee is overly-quiet in a meeting, someone will urge them to share. Everyone’s opinion matters. When Chris was asked what he was thinking, his response caused some laughter. “I’m thinking you all are pretty direct aren’t you? I’m from the South. We tend to be a bit more subtle in expressing our opinions.” Then he added, “But I think I like it. No one will leave this meeting wondering what someone else was thinking!”

There is a fine line between fixing blame and fixing problems. We try very hard to maintain the distinction, but our weekly worship debrief of music, vocals, service flow, announcements and the message are not for the faint-of-heart. We subscribe to the axiom, “If people don’t talk it out, they will act it out.” It means those who refuse to share their frustrations and feelings in an open discussion will find other, more destructive ways, to share their opinions outside of the meeting. That is called passive-aggressive-behavior and nothing good comes from it.

In his best-selling book, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Patrick Lencioni even urges leaders to “mine for conflict.” In other words, if team members hesitate to share their concerns publicly, it becomes the leader’s job to make sure differences of opinion get discussed openly rather than destructively behind the backs of the team. Everyone benefits when team members say what they mean and mean what they say.

I’m not suggesting people’s feelings don’t matter. Of course they do. Christians and healthy teams have zero tolerance for personal attacks and character assaults, public or otherwise. I lose all interest in a complaint or a difference of opinion when it is little more than a veiled assault on another person. Unless proven otherwise, I believe most people (even those I disagree with) do what they do because they believed it is the best course of action to achieve the desired outcome. We can disagree about the strategy and the effectiveness of the implementation without becoming disagreeable.

The reason our congregation conducts worship in a relevant and current style of music and dress, rather than in ancient robes and instruments of the past, is to communicate the relevance of God’s word for today’s culture. One of the first controversies in the early church was over the issue of whether new Christians should be required to accept Jewish customs before they accepted the Jewish Messiah. The apostles understood that the purpose of customs was to lead people to Jesus, not to be venerated as holy. The apostle wrote,

Do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, a New Moon celebration or a Sabbath day. These are a shadow of the things that were to come; the reality, however, is found in Christ.”

Everything should bring people to Jesus. That’s God’s bottom-line.  

Our pastors’ sermons are more than a mere discussion of a truth found in God’s word. No one will be saved or even grow more mature in faith by passing a test. We believe every story, every miracle, every teaching, prophecy, and metaphor in the Bible is given by God for the benefit of people. He wants to remind us of His love, the certainty of eternal life, and offer sage advice for dealing with the complex issues of each day’s challenge. Making sure people followed customs and traditions was never high on Jesus’ list of priorities. Mark’s account is insightful;

“One Sabbath Jesus was going through the grainfields, and as his disciples walked along, they began to pick some heads of grain. 24 The Pharisees said to him, “Look, why are they doing what is unlawful on the Sabbath?” 25 He answered, “Have you never read what David did when he and his companions were hungry and in need? 26 In the days of Abiathar the high priest, he entered the house of God and ate the consecrated bread, which is lawful only for priests to eat. And he also gave some to his companions.” 27 Then he said to them, “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath.”

Most religious leaders teach the opposite of what Jesus emphatically declared. They teach, “People should adhere to traditions as a show of respect and appreciation for God.” Jesus turned it upside down when He said, “Religious practices are established by God for the good of people period, not because God wanted to test the sincerity ofpeople’s respect and honor.

When the apostle Paul discussed so-called obedience to the demands made upon the faithful by religious practices he said, He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant—not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.”

Our time and energies are wasted when we emphasize style over substance. It’s always good to ask, “What are you trying to do? Followed up by, “How is God blessing that?”

The Scripture

The words of Jesus our Savior, “Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you: “‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. They worship me in vain; their teachings are merely human rules.’” (Matthew 15:7-9)

  • Name a tradition in worship that is important to you but is not commanded by God?
  • Is it possible for churches to get cross-ways over non-biblical issues? For example?
  • Finish your thoughts with a prayer for greater unity in all churches and between various Christian Churches.


I prefer a church that:

a.) Remains faithful to the Word of God.
b.) Remains faithful to the word of God and honors long held traditions.
c.) Remains faithful to the word of God and will do anything to reach those far from God.

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Brief Notes

Invest in yourself and your team through attending the Global Leadership Summit on August 6-7. Early Bird Pricing is in effect through June 23.

The 4th of July is just around the corner and you can help us celebrate with our community at the biggest and best July 4th party in West County--right here on this campus. The best part is you can volunteer for a while and still enjoy the party and the fireworks. Sign up here.

The Senior Pastor Transition Special Congregation Meeting is Tuesday, June 2 at 7:00pm. Your continued prayers as we move through this important step in the life of this ministry are appreciated.

Do you have a rising 6th-graduating 12th grader in your house? Make sure they know about Summer Sessions, a new event for our Student Ministry. They won’t want to miss out on it.

Stephen Hower, Pastor

Challenging the status quo to awaken an appreciation for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Phil. 3:13,14 (and to lower my golf score)

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